Are you getting fed up with reading more and more stories about division and discord? Are you getting tired of watching news reports from Syria, Nigeria, Thailand, Egypt and, now, the Ukraine, about people fighting and killing one another because they cannot agree? I know I am!
There are lots of people I disagree with and I know there are plenty who don’t agree with me. But there’s no one I would disagree with enough to kill them. And I hope there’s no one I would stop speaking to because we hold different viewpoints. In point of fact, when I’ve taken the trouble to sit down and talk with them (or they with me) I’ve usually found that, even if we continue to disagree, we seem to get on a lot better.
There’s a world of difference between good healthy argument and sectarian division that leads to bloodshed and violence. And yet the “world of difference” that we all live in is simply a sign of diversity and the amazing plethora of variety that surrounds us. God made us all different just like he designed each separate snowflake, and we are going to have to learn somehow to live with difference and disagreement or we’ll just end up annihilating everyone else with a different point of view.
I learned many years ago that the more opposite our standpoints and opinions, the stronger the friendships we could make if we just learned to get on. Thus a young person could build a stronger link to an older person and a black person to a white. A Jew could get on better with an Arab and a Catholic with a Protestant. It is our very difference that makes us more interesting; it increases our impetus for understanding and makes more beautiful the complexity of our relationships.
The apostle Paul puts it like this: There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. I put it like this: The bigger the barrier we breach, the better the bridge we build.
And whether you’re a Jew or a Gentile, a male or a female, a believer or a seeker; there’s no doubt that building better bridges in this world of difference we inhabit is a very good thing to do!